1. The first date is less important than you think.
Nobody will remember exactly what you’ve said on the first date, but people will always remember how you’ve made them feel. Therefore, you’d better focus on having more fun on the first date instead of taking it too seriously.
2. Be a good listener.
You need to actually listen to what your date is saying. Find out their motivations and emotions. Remember to ask questions such as “Why do you want to be a teacher?” so that you will find out their emotions and motivations rather than some basic facts.
3. Ask yourself, “What am I curious about them?”
Be curious. Don’t be judgemental on the first date. The initial stage is all about discovery, so you would be well-advised to remain open-minded.
4. Bring passion to every date.
A passionate person brings passion to everything instead of waiting for something stimulating to happen. Always be positive, interested and enthusiastic & your love life will become more wonderful as a result.
5. Blind dates are great, too.
It’s perfectly okay to ask your friends to introduce someone suitable to you. This is much better than online dating which brings more risk than benefits. Your friends know you pretty well, so they can filter candidates for you organically.
6. Law of Attraction actually works.
Although Law of Attraction is controversial, it actually works reasonably well in the dating department – this isn’t about wishful thinking; it’s about feeling positive feelings before good things happen to you!
7. Ask for opinions and listen to advice.
When you are madly in love, love is blind. Therefore, it’s paramount to ask for your friends’ honest opinions and actually listen to their advice carefully – your friends should help you in this regard.
8. Don’t expect to change anyone.
So, you’ve tried to change your own habits, but how hard has that been? You know how hard it is to change yourself, let alone changing someone else! Thus, you shouldn’t expect to change anybody. The person you are dating now is going to stay the same in future. Can you honestly accept that?
9. Get rid of the judge on your shoulder.
Everyone has some insecurities. If you don’t like your age, your weight, etc., that’s usually because you are judging yourself too much. Now I’d like you to remove the judge on your shoulder and allow yourself to be calm, happy and confident. Only in this way can you convince others of your high value, because no one will value you more than you value yourself.
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