Do you know why nowadays more and more ladies want to be independent alpha women? Well, that’s because an increasing number of men have beta behaviour! So, if you are looking to be the most alpha version of yourself, please keep reading! 😊
· Be the leader in a relationship.
As a man in a relationship, you either lead or be misled. Period.
Confidence and adventure lead to excitement; confidence and growth lead to momentum; adventure and growth lead to transformation.
Then when excitement, momentum and transformation are combined, what do you get?
The answer is leadership.
Apparently, when you are confident and adventurous with a growth mindset, you automatically create three elements that directly result in leadership in a relationship.
· The truth about leadership in a romantic relationship:
Because this isn’t a linguistics class, we won’t discuss the specific details about the above-mentioned keywords. As long as you know what those keywords mean, that’s enough. Please don’t overthink linguistics. You would be well-advised to be less analytical and more creative in a romantic relationship. 😉
In order to help you quickly understand what leadership looks like in a relationship, I’m going to give you some examples:
1.) You plan each date night before hand. You organise all the activities that you two will do. Don’t ask her to tell you which café or restaurant you should take her to for the date night.
2.) You have your own career plans and life blueprint. You proactively share your vision with her so that she can follow your guidance and leadership. Don’t follow her career path in order to be with her (I know a guy who moved countries, changed careers and accumulated more student debt because of his wife who has a PhD in her field. In order to stay married to her, this guy does whatever makes her happy. Well, in the short term, those things could make her reasonably happy. But in the long term, she might not respect him because of his beta behaviour.)
3.) Have s*x with clothes on. If your lady is wearing a skirt or a dress, hike up her skirt or dress and f**k her just like that. If she wears pants, roughly rip them off. Simply move her pants aside without taking them off and f**k her just like that. Of course, you’d better pre-frame the situation by saying, “Let’s try Fifty Shades of Grey now.” In this way, she knows what this is about, so she would enjoy it!
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