(Disclaimer: The information in this article is for general information purpose only. Please use these strategies at your own risk – if you receive her boyfriend’s phone call and he wants to beat you up, I can’t be responsible for that!)
Question: I’m in love with a girl who probably has a boyfriend. She isn’t in a happy relationship, but she doesn’t know that she deserves true love. How can I make her fall for me?
Answer:
You can find a way to bring up her boyfriend in the conversation and ask, “Is he the perfect guy that you’ll marry?” (Ask her this question in a playful and relaxed way.) If she isn’t very happy with her boyfriend, she’ll start to tell you about his problems – that’s exactly what you want: When a woman begins to share her relationship issues with you, she is literally building an emotional connection with you.
But if she is very happy with her boyfriend, you can ask her, “What kind of video games does he play? Which TV show does he watch? I’d like to meet him.” (You don’t disagree with her; you should be on her side and show positivity.) Note that if she is in a long-term relationship that she is satisfied with, she is actually looking for excitement/playfulness which is rare in long-term relationships, and you’re the one who offers her excitement and playfulness. 😉
If she receives a text message, you can let her respond to the message and then you try to grab her phone and playfully say, “Is that your boyfriend? Let’s take a photo together and send it to him.” Then she’ll say, “No. No.” (She needs to know you’re joking.) Just be playful, spontaneous and fun.
You probably should find out whether her boyfriend knows that she is spending time with you or not. If her boyfriend doesn’t know it, it means their relationship is not that great OR she is possibly interested in you.
You can play with the line by asking her, “What do you think is cheating? Do you think kissing is cheating?” She might say, “Yes, kissing is cheating.” Now you say, “Then we can look at each other or I can kiss you on the cheek. That’s what friends do. Or I can kiss you on the hand because that’s what a gentleman would do when he meets you.” 😊
After doing these things, you should stop talking to her for several days so she’ll think about you/miss you. She’ll begin to realize that she has a side that wants adventure and excitement. You will bring out her rebellious side.
Find a way to get her alone with you frequently. As long as you emphasize that you two are just friends, she wouldn’t feel guilty when she spends time with you alone.
Basically, you need to make her feel that it is her idea to be with you.
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