The ability to tell stories effectively is probably one of the most important skills that you should have when it comes to attracting women. Now I’m going to share some quick tips about storytelling with you.
· Prepare compelling materials.
I highly encourage you to become an avid reader because leaders are readers. If you read a book per month, you will have a lot of interesting things to talk about. Therefore, from now on, you should totally create a reading list and begin to read more books. In this way, you will never run out of things to say when you are talking to a woman. Of course, you should read a wide variety of categories, e.g. politics, culture, business, fitness, tourism, human dynamics, etc.
· Use hooks to keep her interested.
Remember to vary your pace when you are telling a story. Sometimes you speed up; sometimes you slow down; sometimes you use a normal speed. Sometimes you pause and say, “So, I’m curious [pause again, and then insert a question such as ‘What would you do if you were in this situation?]” Now she will have to lean in and pay more attention to you! What a powerful hook.
· Make sure there are several unanswered questions in your story.
Now please have a look at this example story: “The other day I was booking my flight on the phone, and strangely, that person with an South American accent literally told me that I can only book my flight on the Internet these days because they are not accepting any booking on the phone anymore.” In this story, there are several unanswered questions: 1) Where were you planning to go? 2) What’s the difference between booking a flight on the phone and booking a flight on the Internet? 3) Why can’t they accept any booking on the phone nowadays?
· Work on your sub-communication.
Sub-communication refers to anything that is implied rather than directly said. This includes your tone, your facial expression, your eye contact, and so on. When you tell a story with the right sub-communication, the story itself also becomes more engaging. In contrast, when you tell a story with the wrong sub-communication, you are basically wasting your time.
· Give your story an unforgettable ending.
You should totally end your story with a good punchline. Examples:
1.) “As a frequent flyer, I prefer business class where I can network with like-minded businessmen.”
2.) “The conclusion is: never trust a maddening teenager.”
3.) “And that’s how to turn annoying depression into amazing connection.”
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